Why Don't People Like Me? Use Our Quiz to Get People to Like You

3-MINUTE LIKEABILITY TEST

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How Can You Improve Your Likeability?

Do you sometimes wonder just how likeable you are? Actually, don't we all?

Our 3-Minute Likeability Test, like all our tests, has been thoroughly researched and carefully designed to assess aspects of how you relate to people. Complete it and you can download an immediate and detailed report on the sort of mistakes you make – and how to fix them! It's free, it's anonymous, and it's fun and easy to do.

Here's a great way to test your likeability:

Anonymous - if that's how you want it!
Just takes 3 minutes with 15 research-backed questions
AMAZINGLY accurate results
FREE personalised online report
Action Plan showing you how to IMPROVE!

We hope you find it as useful as thousands of others have done.

But this is important: you must answer these questions with what REALLY applies to you, not what you'd LIKE to be the case. Your report will be based solely on the answers you give, and no-one else needs to see it, so be completely truthful!

Instructions

Scroll down the page: there are 15 questions that will appear as you mouse over them: just click to select the answer for each.

Don't worry if any scenario doesn't apply directly to you, just imagine yourself in an equivalent situation.

And remember:

Don't over-think it
If none apply, pick the closest match
Be honest

Have fun and we hope you find it useful!

Great Tips on Using the Test

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Question 1

You have arranged to meet someone but you may be late. What do you do?

Turn up when you can

Call/text them to say you might be late

Call/text them to rearrange

Make sure you're there regardless

Question 2

You are in a group where everyone is joking around. What do you do?

You are usually the one making the jokes

You laugh and take an active part

You sometimes join in

You only join in if you know the group well

Question 3

How often do friends or work colleagues come to you for advice?

Often

Sometimes

Rarely

You don't like giving advice

Question 4

You are organising a holiday with family or friends. How do you plan it?

Ask everyone what they want and try to reach a compromise

You have a good idea what they want and trust your judgment

The planning is usually left to you and the others go along with it

You prefer to leave the planning to others

Question 5

How open are you to suggestions from other people about what you do?

You are generally OK without suggestions

You will listen, but advice is often inappropriate

Quite open, but it depends on what you are doing

Very open - you welcome constructive criticism

Question 6

Which of the following best describes your circle of friends?

Lots of friends of all types

A few friends that go back a long way

Not many friends - you are pretty self sufficient

Your friendship group changes as you move around

Question 7

Is it OK to tell a lie to gain an advantage?

Yes, always - it's a tough world

Not with friends but OK with other people

Yes, if it's justified by what you are getting

Never: once you start, it's a slippery slope

Question 8

Someone you know only slightly asks you for a favour. What is your initial reaction?

You are generally happy with this because you like helping people

You would be careful to find out exactly what it involves first

You prefer to avoid this if you don't know them

You'd say yes but may change your mind if it got too involved

Question 9

If you see someone you don't know who is struggling with what they are doing, what do you do?

Ask if they need help then give it if you can

Smile or commiserate but leave it at that

Don't get involved

It very much depends on who they are

Question 10

You are at an event where you do not know many people. What do you do?

You get to know a small group of people

You prefer to stay with the people that you know

You freely engage with whoever you meet

It depends on the situation

Question 11

How do you feel about lending money to a friend?

Only if you are sure they are trustworthy

Never: it can go wrong too often

You are more likely to borrow money than to lend it

You would always help out a friend, no matter what

Question 12

When faced with adversity, what do you usually do?

Rise to the occasion and enjoy the challenge

Stay as positive as you can

Look to other people for help

You try to focus on other things

Question 13

You are trying to concentrate but someone keeps disturbing you. What do you do?

You don't react as you may hurt their feelings

You show your disapproval but leave it at that

You ask them to stop

It depends who they are

Question 14

How do you think other people rate your abilities?

Don't know/don't care

Average to poor

Pretty good

Exceptional

Question 15

A friend calls to discuss a problem but you are watching your favourite TV programme. What do you do?

You say you'll call them back later

You turn off the TV and talk

You pretend there's a problem with the phone

You arrange to see them later for a proper chat

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